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08-03-2007, 06:15 PM
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Have you ever.................
had a abortion? i never have and never could but to each their own, just curious to see how many have.
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08-03-2007, 06:57 PM
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 It's just not a choice I'd make.
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08-03-2007, 06:57 PM
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NOT an option for me.
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08-03-2007, 07:02 PM
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You know, I never say I would NEVER do something. I think there are some situations that would consider it - maybe not do it, but think about it. I have been waiting for a baby for a long time and I still can't say that I would NEVER EVER. I think people should have a choice... Now, hopefully I don't get strung up by my toenails!
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08-03-2007, 07:57 PM
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That is a non-option as far as I'm concerned.
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08-03-2007, 08:29 PM
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Personally for me I don't feel as if it would ever be an option UNLESS something was severly wrong with the baby. And, if it was something like the baby would die because of all the health issues.
But, it changes from person to person.
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08-03-2007, 10:39 PM
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Not an option here either.
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08-03-2007, 11:25 PM
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Not an option for me either. I couldn't ever make that decision. If there was something wrong with the baby, I would most likely allow nature take it's course and let God make the decision.
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08-04-2007, 04:35 PM
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Definately a big NO here. I could never ever.
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08-05-2007, 09:19 AM
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I couldn't and wouldn't. I think the ONLY way I would consider it is if I were raped by a family member or something...and even then I would consider adoption and the kid would never know what he/she was a product of.
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08-05-2007, 11:14 AM
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Just a note here.... a friend of mine was told her baby had a severe heart defect while she was pregnant. Her doctors pressured and pressured her to abort and said that the baby wouldn't live more than a few days and would be in agony the whole time. I just got the invitation to her baby girl's first birthday yesterday. Doctors are NOT always right!
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08-05-2007, 08:50 PM
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Wow Melinda, thanks for sharing that!
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08-06-2007, 11:44 AM
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I have. The baby had a defect, I saw the ultrasound pics. It was where she had no skull or complete brain. I have no idea how she lived as long as she did. There was no way the baby could have lived, and I do not regret my decision at all.
I can never say never because I used to, and then that happened to me. It was a hard heartbreaking decision for me to make, but I couldn't have carried her to full term and given birth to her to watch her die. :/
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08-14-2007, 01:36 PM
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I'm kind of on the same page as Whips....I would never say never. If the baby was sick I'd let nature take its course - my college year book quote said "I'd rather have a moment of happiness than a life time of nothing at all" (from the movie Steele Magnolias).
If I was raped I would seriously consider it. I'd have to question myself if I would love a baby that was made out of such hate and rage as much as I love my own children. Would this baby have a healthy mind set or will it have an in-born sense and be full of hate and rage him/herself and cause destruction to him/herself or others. How would I tell the baby that their father was a terrible person and not influence their impressionable mind in any way? Can I honestly tell my child that I forgave the person who hurt me? Those are just some of the things that would race thru my mind....I'm not saying I would do it but I'm not saying I wouldn't. I would seriously consider it, and do tons of research on my options and probably seek professional help in making my decision.
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