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04-17-2008, 01:12 AM
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.Horrible news
Today we found Grandma Mary dead in her bathtub, we don't know yet what caused her death, might had been a fall or a storke. I checked on her the day before and talked to her.. Yesterday she might had died, we don't know for sure.. I know that I heard her moving above us and that she seemed to be alive then, Dan went up and delievered some cat food, but since it was some what late, he thought she was sleeping. We went to give her cat her medicine at 7pm... She didn't answer the door, Dan went in and looked for her and knocked loudly on the bathroom door, she didn't answer. He went in and found her in the bathtub.. She wasn't breathing. We called 911 but they couldn't do anything she had been dead for a awhile.
I feel horrible that she was dead and we didn't know. I feel like it is my fault for not constantly checking in on her thourgh out the day. I regret not telling her that I loved her and that she was like my grandmother. She also didn't know I was pregnant. I miss her. I had to go into her apartment and get the cat and the cat stuff, I coudn't even walk past the bathroom.. I broke down into tears getting the cat stuff. Her cat is crying for her and it is breaking my heart.. I should had been there.. And I wasn't. I just want to see her one last time... But I can't. I'd give anything just for one conversatoin with her again. She was like my grandmother.. I never really had on ebefore.. And that eant so much to me. I don't think I can go back into her apartment again. The poor cat is standing in our bathroom just crying.. The three floors have identical layouts.. I'm so sorry I let this happen to her. She shouldn't have had laid there for so long or died alone.. I think its my fault. If you have any thoughts or anything, pleas epost them.. I don't have many actual people to lean on anymore. 
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04-17-2008, 09:03 AM
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 So sorry for your loss! We all have moments of regrets when a loved one dies. Don't blame yourself for what has happened. I'm sure she knew you cared for her with all you have done. Just take one day at a time and remember the good times with her. 
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04-17-2008, 10:22 AM
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I am so sorry for you loss. But it isnt your fault. You had no idea what was going to happen.
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04-17-2008, 12:15 PM
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That is 100% not your fault. You did NOT kill her, things happen all the time that YOU cannot control. I feel that God is an opportunist. He needed your Grandma back in his house at that time and saw an opportunity and ran with it. We all have our time to go and many of us have strange or uncomfortable deaths and in the case of accidents or the strange ones, I think that God was just using the surroundings to get people back to his house. Don't be hard on yourself...you didn't do anything wrong.
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04-17-2008, 08:35 PM
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 it isn't your fault. I am sorry for your loss
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04-21-2008, 01:57 PM
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I know it's hard to loose a loved 1...but like Charisma said you didn;t kill her...I remember when my Grandma died I'd wish for her back so I could talk to her 1 last time and make cookies with her...and now with a baby on the way I wish for her here more then ever since she was the 1 who raised me...
when my Grandma died and I found out a song came to my mind called Holes in the Floor of Heaven by Steve Wariner...that song helped me get through my Grandma's death I mean sure it hit me hard but in the song he talks about the holes in heaven's floor where the people there can watch what's going on down here on earth...and it was helpful to think of that and think of my Grandma watching over me... it's hard I know
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