About the waxing I have no idea, I wax my face and would never dream of waxing down there. The pain, OMG! the pain. your insane!
As for bottles, my boys were both breastfed and both were so different as to which bottles they would take, if they would actually take one. Jordan didnt care, as long as he got food in his tummy he was a happy baby. For him I kept the Playtex drop ins on hand. His paci was a playtex too, and they dont make his style anymore.
Peyton refused a bottle for the most part. A friend of mine borrowed me one of hers for a while to try and he would take it on occasion but not often. It was more hassle for me than it was worth, but I only had one and stayed home with him. His paci was also Playtex, but not the same style as Jordan's, I believe it is the current style you see more often now.
Sorry, I'm not much help am I? LOL